Unanswered Questions

Last night I had one of those phone conversations. The kind that go on forever and that change nothing. They make you cry and what was black and white before is a big grey mush now. All you do is make it harder to get up the next morning and you know, you just know that whoever said a problem shared is a problem halved was really drunk. And nosy.

Things change over time, people adapt with it, people adapt to each other, but how much is it ok to change before you loose sight of who you really are or find yourself pretending? You can only go so far before you're not the same person they wanted to be with to start with. How much of your own happiness can you afford to sacrifice to make someone else truly happy? Is there some magic formula to make this stop hurting?